Category Archives: Children

Can’t we all get along?

So my daughter is a nerd, a really georgeous nerd, but still a nerd.  Now don’t be shocked!  Those are her words not mine.  Well, I put the georgeous part in but never mind that…  You can go to her blog and read about her adventures in New York City.  It’s called nerdinthecity.wordpress.com.  It’s fun to read and she’s a good writer so I invite you to check it out.

This is a picture of my daughter, Beth.

But on to the topic I want to discuss.  My daughter is always talking about how men who are nerds are intimidated by her.  Did I mention she’s georgeous and very outgoing?  Anyway, men that like the things she likes are very intimidated by her and it got me thinking about how we’re all just people with different interests but we get flustered when others are different from us.  Sometimes it’s not just flustered, it’s downright fearful, intimidated or frightened.  (Insert your own word.)  We tend to flock towards birds of the same feather and yet, they say opposites attract.  Go figure!  But my point is that we are all people, two arms, legs, eyes, ears, heads, shoulders, knees and toes.  Oops the Preschool teacher is coming out in me.  Back to my point.  My point is that we are all people, made in the image of God so rather than let our differences keep us from interacting with one another or becoming friendly, maybe we can try and let our differences draw us together to be able to learn something about one another.  To broaden our horizons, change our viewpoints, expand our vocabulary and oh, so much more.

So, next time you see someone who’s different try engaging them in conversation and learn a new thing or two.

Happy conversing!

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prayer..

prayer.. (Photo credit: aronki)

I passed a homeless person on the way to school today.  My first response was to discount him and since he was right around the corner from where I work I thought “Oh great”.  This particular homeless man ‘s name is James.  I know that because he has a big sign on his bicycle that says his name.  It also says something about just giving him $3.00.   I’ve seen him around before and he always carries a chair with him so he can sit.  He must make the rounds because he’s not here all the time and that must mean he’s got other spots he goes to.  But what really struck me today and got me thinking was the fact that he was not sitting in the chair today but kneeling in front of it.  As I inched closer to him in traffic I noticed he had a Bible on the seat and his lips were moving.  As I started to turn the corner I noticed he held his hand up in the air.  If you’ve ever been in church you’ll see many people, including myself, lift their hands up to God during the music or during the prayer time.  So, I figured he must have been reading his Bible and praying.  Wow!  That made an impact on me this morning.  It made me think about how many times I’ve gotten down on my knees.  Well, I can say there have been times and I can also say that it usually was in times of vulnerability like James, by the side of the road with people all around.  Now, I’m not naive.  James might have been putting on a good show so that he could get some, (I’m sure), well needed funds.  But did he do that every day?  Was he praying for enough money to buy food for the day?  Was he asking if God would help him just get through the day?  I really don’t know.  I’m sure I’ll never know.  But, just seeing a homeless man on his knees reading a Bible and praying made me take a step back and look at my own spiritual disciplines.  Do I pray every day that God would help me get through the day?  What about praying that God would help me help someone else just get through the day?  Well, whatever James is praying for he certainly gave me something to think about. If I see him again, I’m going to give him $3.00 because he gave me a lot of food for thought today and I think I should give him some food too, don’t you think?

 

Let children create!

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I’ve talked once before about how important it was to have art in the classroom and at home.  Here’s a great article with some Facts about what creative art can accomplish in your child.

CREATIVE ART…

  • Stimulates and develops the imagination and critical thinking, and refines cognitive and creative skills.

 

  • Has a tremendous impact on the developmental growth of every child and has proven to help level the “learning field” across socio-economic boundaries.

 

  • Strengthens problem-solving and critical-thinking skills, adding to overall academic achievement and school success.

 

  • Develops a sense of craftsmanship, quality task performance, and goal-setting—skills needed to succeed in the classroom and beyond.

 

  • Teaches children life skills such as developing an informed perception; articulating a vision; learning to solve problems and make decisions; building self-confidence and self-discipline; developing the ability to imagine what might be; and accepting responsibility to complete tasks from start to finish.

 

  • Nurtures important values, including team-building skills; respecting alternative viewpoints; and appreciating and being aware of different cultures and traditions.

 

  • Plays a central role in cognitive, motor, language, and social-emotional development.

 

  • Motivates and engages children in learning, stimulates memory, facilitates understanding, enhances symbolic communication, promotes relationships, and provides an avenue for building competence.

 

  • Provides a natural source of learning. Child development specialists note that play is the business of young children; play is the way children promote and enhance their development. The arts are a most natural vehicle for play.

So, get out there and buy some play-doh, markers, crayons, paper, tape, glue, glitter and other art mediums for your children.  You never know what skill you might be helping to re-enforce.  But be informed that when you do you WILL be helping your child to get along better in the world in which we live and after all, isn’t that our job as parents and educators.

LET”S GET CREATIVE!

See you around Target!

Barbara