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Imagination In A Box – by Lala Patrick

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    Now that Christmas is over, the children are having time to play with their electronic toys, dolls, and all the presents that were given.  They are so fun to receive and play with.  Walking in a toy store or a toy section of a store can be overwhelming and the wish list can get quite long before Christmas.  Christmas day is exciting to finally see what is in the wrapped gifts.  And now the children are getting time after Christmas to play with what they received.

After the excitement is over and the toys get old, some parents hear from their children the dreaded words “I’m bored.”  Our hearts sink.

This past Christmas, I was watching some of our smaller cousins while the adults were having their gift exchange. Our extended family plays a gift exchange where we are able to pick a gift that has already been opened and then the turn goes around where you can “steal” a gift someone has and once you have had it 3 times it is yours to keep.   One of the gifts was an empty paper towel roll that had money in it and we laughed that someone wanted an empty paper towel roll.

The little cousins quickly took hold of that paper towel roll and created an hour of fun.  They pretended it was a horn, a telescope, a musical instrument by tapping it on the ground, they made their arm disappear, and it was a golf club hitting a ball and they learned how to make an incline plane that their car could roll down and out.  All the adults smiled and enjoyed watching them using their imagination and one commented that it was the best toy given.

Watching my small cousins took me back to when I was growing up and when my mom would get a boxed package in the mail or a new appliance that came in a huge box.  All the children would want to  claim the box.  We would make it into a fort, a car or whatever our hearts desired.  My brother even made himself into a “box turtle” by cutting a hole in it and sticking his head out and carrying it on his back.  We would have hours of fun with our imagination.

Imaginary play is such important part of growing up.  It is a part of brain development and it gives the children the ability to have stories that they will be able to first talk about, then eventually write and then read.  For example, a child may be interested in space and planets and will create a pretend rocket and take a spacewalk on the moon.   He or she can write about the space walk in pictures or words and then they can share their book with their peers.

Imaginary play also allows the children to take risks. When he or she builds the space ship, they have to decide how it will look, where the door and windows will be. They will design what their rocket ship will look like.  Confident, positive risk takers are the children that can make decisions without always looking for approval from teachers and peers.

Imaginary play has many more developmental benefits such as allowing them to problem solve with their peers, and encourages role playing and language development.  It is even a part of a child’s gross and fine motor development.   So next time a box comes your way, remember “the sky is the limit” when it comes to the imagination of a child.

To Spare or Not to Spare, is that a question?

I am trying to read the Bible everyday and today as I was reading Proverbs 13:24 I read, “Whoever spares the rod, hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them.”  I was sort of pondering on that this morning.  I went and looked in other translations and the majority of them said the same thing, if you don’t use the rod, then you hate your children.  Wow, those are strong words.

In our society people have read that verse to mean that you must spank your children,  the rod equals punishment.  So, as I was thinking about that I dug a little and found that in the Bible the rod was used by those who herded sheep.  Now, they didn’t hit the sheep over the heads with the rod, they used it to gently tap them to go where they wanted them to go,  They led them to the right places, the safe places.  If a sheep got out of the herd, the rod was used to lead it back to the safety of the herd, never to hit it.  Moses had a staff, or rod.  He used it to lead the Hebrews out of slavery.  He held it up high so that the Hebrews could see it and it would guide them as they were leaving Egypt, to go to a better place.

Spare the Rod

Spare the Rod (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Both those examples don’t have anything to do with punishment but with discipline, something our society is woefully lacking.   I have seen so many children that have not been disciplined by parents and so these children are making unsafe decisions with their lives.  In an effort to be a friend to their children they are failing to lead them, to guide them, to keep them safe.

It’s sometimes the easy path to let a child go their own way, somehow thinking that we’ll just be friends and that will work or that they need to make their own decisions and that will help them.  But that is not what the Bible says.  It says, if you spare the rod of discipline then you hate your child.  It says that the one who disciplines their child loves that child.  They really are strong words but I think God has it right.  We would do well to listen to Him.

Have a great day and remember, don’t spare that rod!

Refreshment – what’s your pleasure?

What is refreshment and why is it so good for you?

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relaxation zone (Photo credit: shnnn)

Have you ever been to a party where they said there was going to be refreshments?  What exactly did you think that might mean?  Finger foods, new foods, old time favorites, something nourishing or something sugary and tasty?  Probably at any given time you thought all of those things.  Sometimes my thought is Oh, yeah, I don’t have to cook, I’ll just eat whatever they have.  Actually that has backfired on me sometimes.  Because the word refreshments doesn’t neccessarily mean there will be a lot of food there to fill you up.  It doesn’t neccessarily mean there will be such a variety that you’ll feel like you had a meal.  Sometimes, I’ve thought it would be enough food to replace lunch and it was only dessert.  Surprise!  I had to go and find lunch after the party because I was hungry!

But the word refreshement doesn’t just refer to food.   Here is the definition of refreshment…

re·fresh·ment

n.

1. The act of refreshing or the state of being refreshed.

2. Something, such as food or drink, that refreshes.

3. refreshments A snack or light meal and drinks.
So, other than number 2 and 3 the word refreshment is referring to a state of being, an act.  So, what refreshes my being other than food?  Let’s see, sleep is a good one.  Relaxation.  Laughter is a great one.  Reading.  Taking a shower.  Praying.  Hanging out with family and friends.  Taking a long walk on a cool day.  Contemplation.  Swimming, bicycling, running, playing basketball…the list could go on and on with sports.  Really, anything that makes me feel good after it is over.
So, now we could go the other way and think about what depletes us and that list could go on and on and it would be different for everyone.
The question I want to throw out there today is…Are you spending most of your time being depleted or being refreshed?  That is a question only you can answer.
Take a few minutes today and figure it out.  Maybe you need more refreshment in your life.  If we all could get the balance right in our lives it could make a huge difference not only in our life but in the lives of the people around us and really it could affect the world.

Imagine that…!!!

Summer Feel

I was just wondering today why summer feels so different from the rest of the year.  Anybody want to expound on this?  Of course, as a school teacher it feels different because you don’t have to go to work anymore for 2 months.  Whoo-Hoo!!  What a great thing, built in vacation time.  But other people have expressed that it feels different to them too.  People who have to work through the year.  I, myself, pretty much have to work through the summer.  But luckily I get to be more flexible in my

Romantic sunset at the beach in Malaysia

Romantic sunset at the beach in Malaysia (Photo credit: epSos.de)

hours so maybe that’s why it feels different.  It also might be because I don’t have all the teachers or the students here at the school and so I have that freedom where I am working by myself without outside obligation. (to some extent)  Could it be the heat and the fact that we can go swimming or to the beach.  Although we could do that before, after all it is Florida.

Well, I’m not exactly sure, maybe a combination of all of those things.  But the fact remains, summer feels different and no matter why it feels different, I like it.

So have a wonderful rest of your summer and we’ll see you back in August!