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Imagination In A Box – by Lala Patrick

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    Now that Christmas is over, the children are having time to play with their electronic toys, dolls, and all the presents that were given.  They are so fun to receive and play with.  Walking in a toy store or a toy section of a store can be overwhelming and the wish list can get quite long before Christmas.  Christmas day is exciting to finally see what is in the wrapped gifts.  And now the children are getting time after Christmas to play with what they received.

After the excitement is over and the toys get old, some parents hear from their children the dreaded words “I’m bored.”  Our hearts sink.

This past Christmas, I was watching some of our smaller cousins while the adults were having their gift exchange. Our extended family plays a gift exchange where we are able to pick a gift that has already been opened and then the turn goes around where you can “steal” a gift someone has and once you have had it 3 times it is yours to keep.   One of the gifts was an empty paper towel roll that had money in it and we laughed that someone wanted an empty paper towel roll.

The little cousins quickly took hold of that paper towel roll and created an hour of fun.  They pretended it was a horn, a telescope, a musical instrument by tapping it on the ground, they made their arm disappear, and it was a golf club hitting a ball and they learned how to make an incline plane that their car could roll down and out.  All the adults smiled and enjoyed watching them using their imagination and one commented that it was the best toy given.

Watching my small cousins took me back to when I was growing up and when my mom would get a boxed package in the mail or a new appliance that came in a huge box.  All the children would want to  claim the box.  We would make it into a fort, a car or whatever our hearts desired.  My brother even made himself into a “box turtle” by cutting a hole in it and sticking his head out and carrying it on his back.  We would have hours of fun with our imagination.

Imaginary play is such important part of growing up.  It is a part of brain development and it gives the children the ability to have stories that they will be able to first talk about, then eventually write and then read.  For example, a child may be interested in space and planets and will create a pretend rocket and take a spacewalk on the moon.   He or she can write about the space walk in pictures or words and then they can share their book with their peers.

Imaginary play also allows the children to take risks. When he or she builds the space ship, they have to decide how it will look, where the door and windows will be. They will design what their rocket ship will look like.  Confident, positive risk takers are the children that can make decisions without always looking for approval from teachers and peers.

Imaginary play has many more developmental benefits such as allowing them to problem solve with their peers, and encourages role playing and language development.  It is even a part of a child’s gross and fine motor development.   So next time a box comes your way, remember “the sky is the limit” when it comes to the imagination of a child.

Mother’s Day is Dad’s Day too!

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Mother’s Day card (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms out there!  You deserve a wonderful day because what you do each and every day is so amazing and you should be recognized for it.

But this blog today is for all the dads out there.  I have been blessed to have the most amazing man as my husband.  If you meet him you might not recognize how really great a person he is but just let me tell you a little bit about him just in the context of Mother’s Day.

Since the day our children were born every mother’s day that came along was made special by my husband.  My very first mother’s day present I received when our baby was still in the womb.  I got a bouquet of baby’s breath.  That was so amazing to me.  And very special.  And quite a surprise since I wasn’t technically a mom yet, or was I?  Then while the children were very young, I got dinner out, flowers, etc.  When the kids became a little older they started the tradition of bringing me breakfast in bed.  What a treat and so fun to watch their faces when they brought me the food.  When they were older Dad continued to be the instigator behind the surprises that I got and the gifts and special things that were done for me on Mother’s Day.  And at some point, I can’t remember when, my kids started doing something on their own.  But that didn’t stop my husband continuing to do something special as well.  Now, my kids have moved away from home.  Yes, they still remember me on Mother’s Day.  My kids are wonderful.  But, even now, after the kids are gone my husband still makes sure that I have dinner out someplace special and makes a big deal of Mother’s Day.  Let me tell you how much that has meant to me over the years.  Well, it’s a lot, I can tell you.  My husband gets big points for that and it has helped to strengthen our marriage.   In August we’ll celebrate 32 years.  Wow!

I know some of you are saying, but my wife isn’t my mother.  I’ll honor my mother and let the kids do something for their mom.  Wrong, wrong, wrong!!  I’m only saying this because I care.  Dads, don’t go down that path.  If you want happy moms and a great marriage, take a page from my husband’s book and honor your wife on Mother’s Day.  If you do, Mother’s Day will become Dad’s day too!

Happy Mother’s Day!