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Sex and Sexuality!

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It has been my observation that we are a society enamored by anything sexual.  You see it on TV all the time.  A woman walks on the beach in a skimpy bikini and the camera does a slo mo as she flings back her hair and moistens her lips and you wonder, “what is this an ad for”?  And way in the corner of the screen you might see a pair of jeans draped over a chair and the ad is about jeans.  In magazines we see scantily clad women, (considered pornography in the 50’s) in sexy poses and they’re trying to sell body lotion.   Billboards, internet, TV, magazines, everywhere you look.  How in the world can anyone survive intact with a healthy body image in the midst of the world in which we live?  How can we raise children in an environment where they are surrounded by this kind of message?

Children are products of their environment.  You’ve heard the old controversy, nurture vs. nature.  Well, the truth is it’s both.  But praise the Lord, because parents are HUGE influencers of their children and set the stage for a child’s moral values, their spiritual development, and a whole lot more.  So, my question to you parents out there is this…How are you influencing your children.  Are YOU doing the influencing or are you letting the world influence your children.  By what I see on TV, movies and in magazines, it’s a tough world out there in which to find one’s identity.  It’s so much worse than when I was a child.  So, it is even more important that as parents and guardians of our children that we speak louder than the world.

So, raise your voice and be an influencer.  Your children really are listening!

Raining Cats and Dogs

 
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This week one of my teachers was laughing after school and I asked what was so funny?  And she said that she had told the children in her class that it was raining cats and dogs.  Well, about three of her kids ran to the window to check outside to see the cats and dogs.  It seems so funny to us as adults but to children they just believed that what the teacher said was literal.  That is because children don’t understand until the age of around 7 to 11 that reality and fantasy are different things.  Do you ever notice how small children are terrified of a character from an amusement park but when they get to be around 7  or so, they start trying to figure out who’s inside?   Piaget calls it Concrete Operational and it is a part of our cognitive development.  Suffice it to say, children believe what they hear and see as real because they aren’t fully developed yet.  That’s why we adults have to play a huge part in sheltering our children until they can learn to make that distinctinction on their own.  If a stranger says they have some puppies in their car that they want to show the child, that child believes them because they don’t have the discernment yet to question whether that is real or not.  Children don’t understand that something they see on TV is not appropriate for them to act out because they don’t understand that it is pretend.  Pretend is their reality.  So, let me put a bug in your ear, parents.  And I’m not talking about a real bug, just a thought to ponder on.  What am I exposing my children to that may be harmful to them as they develop?  Happy pondering!